I didn’t expect to kiss my Mom goodbye with tubes sticking out of her mouth only days before my wedding. We don’t expect being overlooked for the promotion or turned down by the girl of our dreams. Why shouldn’t we aim for greatness? What we don’t expect is God ruining our story. God says he has great plans for us of prosperity and good fortune. We expect great things in life: close friends, happy marriages, connected families, fulfilling jobs, effective ministries. In our ideal picture of life, everything always goes well. No one counts on having their dreams broken, hopes dashed, or loved ones lost. But soon this boob-positive philosophy started to bleed to the outdoors.I used to think God wanted me to write a great story with my life, but I’m learning He actually wants me to be a part of His. I was never shy about being naked in my home. I even sent a few nudes (from the waist up, of course) via text to friends and my mom. As soon as I stepped into the house my boobs were freed.īefore long, free-boobing it became less about safety and more about showing off. Once the ache subsided, to avoid twisting the hoops the wrong way and setting off a twinge of pain, I refused to wear any type of top or bra when I didn't have to. It takes about six months to heal completely, so in that time you want to be really careful, especially when playing with a partner.
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It hurt for about 15 seconds, then throbbed for another day or so. I practiced my yoga breathing as the piercer passed a 2-inch-long needle through the right one, and then the left one. I got both nipples pierced at once, in a tattoo parlor.
While that felt like a deep secret, this was liberating. The naughtiest thing I’ve done is to buy sex toys at Babeland. I’ve always been a Goody Two-Shoes when it comes to, well, everything. In fact, I wanted to tell everyone about my nipples (hence this whole story). But I wasn't guarded about it in the least. That’s something I can definitely empathize with. It’s something that they have, yet nobody knows that they are there unless they are allowed to see them.” “There are also women who get it as a form of self-empowerment. “From mothers who have breastfed who are self-conscious about the appearance of their breasts to women who are self-proclaimed small breasted, the end goal is to feel better about themselves and enhance their overall appearance,” he tells SELF. And unlike clamps, I'd get to keep them in on a regular basis. Nipple piercings seemed like a much tamer way to increase the sensitivity of my breasts, which is a rumored benefit of the piercings.
Then I remembered those breast baubles from college. (You know, a step up from a love bite.) But what if my favorite appendage got squeezed off in a wrong move? Yikes. I toyed with the idea of using nipple clamps with my partner to heighten the pleasure of nipple play. Somewhere along the way, I realized that my breasts were a sensitive erogenous zone for me. I read all the Fifty Shades of Grey books (and laughed my way through both movies). I bought my first bra without the help of my mom. Over the next five years, I reached a lot of life milestones. Then, the image of needles getting pushed through my nipples sent the idea to the back of my mind. I was mesmerized by the discreet jewelry. It was an idea I had been considering ever since a college friend lifted up her shirt to reveal two shining barbells.
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